What if they “don’t like you”?- NazeefWrites

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What if they “don’t like you”?


There were incidents where I learned about some people who didn’t like me. First few days, I was angry on them. The next few days, I grew sad. Finally, I suffered from anxiety and sadness. I lost interest in my studies. I got low grades in my exams. I became social media addict. I became an introvert and soon boredom made it’s place in my mind.

Days slipped into months and it was a peak time where I had to decide my future career. I decided I will become a teacher. By that time, I started living among small kids and young teens. I began to teach Science. During this coarse, I observed each and every student of mine. I observed how they laughed at silly jokes. I saw how excited they were for mere experiments. I observed a boy who swiftly ignored a person and made himself busy in other stuffs. I realized that boys in my school were enlightened by every minute. They maintained their discipline and as well as simplified their life.

I realized, I wasted so much time in getting depressed about people who didn’t like me! I was so cold and boring. I didn’t find happiness in myself but in others. This was such a regretful feelings.

Life has taught me a great lesson. It has taught me how not to miss any fun. It has taught me how to ignore ‘those’ people swiftly. It has taught me how I must get enlightened every minute and hour!

Alhamdulillah, I have come to a point where I feel that everything is nothing but a mere perception.

Life will be very simple if you change your perception. Don’t think about them. Focus on your work. You are not born to impress others, you are born to express yourself. If they don’t like you. It is completely fine! Learn to love yourself. Give yourself abundant love and light. Be kind to yourself. Expel them from the circle of your thoughts. Forgive them and move on.

There’s life waiting for you but are you ready to live a new life?

Comments

  1. Writersthought_15 September 2017 at 12:48

    Absolutely, people keep talking be it bad or good,it's upon us to ignore and follow what we feel is right, rather than hating, fighting yelling, we need to forget and forgive without creating an issue out of their comments.
    Of course we have our own way of life and our own unique style, our destiny is ours so others cannot live it.

    Keep moving forward, loved the above post ��

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    1. NazeefWrites16 September 2017 at 09:43

      Thank you so much. Niha. Your opinion is amazing. Keep sharing this article.

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    2. Writersthought_24 September 2017 at 12:04

      In Sha Allah

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